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« Last post by dgies9156 on Today at 09:10:57 AM »
One fascinating question that's arisen has been approaching priests for guidance or help on our everyday life. Some of you have said you can never trust a priest again and I understand that, given what's happened in our church. Given what's happened with some Protestant congregations, I'm sure some of our Protestant brothers and sisters are saying the same thing!
But the interesting link is the way the ordained ministry in our church reacts with the congregation at large and, frankly, whether most of these people have a clue what's happening on our side of the altar rail. I'm arguing, they don't!
Priests are few and parishes are big. So the notion that each household in a congregation is on a first name basis with the priests of the parish is quaint and also quite ridiculous. Unless you're a financial heavy hitter or extremely active in your parish, chance are none of the clergy knows you. Without that relationship, it's tough to rely on the ministry for anything other than canned advice from some resource parishes have.
Conversely, because Priests live in their own world, they are oblivious to the challenges the people of God face daily. Again, canned advice that doesn't really work.
At the very least, married men and ordained women will bring a broader perspective to Church leadership and better allow the church to serve its people. It will force our leadership into the community and ensure a real world perspective, especially if wives are working, children are griping and the dog needs to be put out!