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Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« on: September 16, 2018, 12:11:02 PM »
Saw this post and was like, how the hell did we get to here in an NFL football thread.

Sultan is right.  No reason both stances cannot be supported. 

Frankly, a 3-month old does not have a lot of business being at an NFL football game.  I personally think bringing the child is a bad idea...but, not my kid. 

As Lazar says, a woman does have the right to feed their child in any way they see fit (as long as it is not hurting the well being of the child).  She can do so by buying a ticket for her child.  Problem solved.

Doubt this will go far, but wanted to respond and felt the NFL Thread wasn't the place for it.

My wife and I having this debate right now regarding the Fiserv Forum. Greta will be 8 months old on opening night when UMBC comes to town. Typically, my wife and I go to games together. I'll occasionally bring someone else, she will even rarely take our tickets and bring a friend, but more often than not we go together.

With an infant, we're debating how best to manage it. We have a wrap that she usually falls asleep in quickly, and one advantage to the Forum is the open concept that would allow us to move up to the concourse tables if she gets fussy and disturbs those around us.

We may use babysitters at times, but to date have only used family, and that's even been rare because our only local in-law is an hour away (my parents are in Florida). And that local in-law just broke both her ankles, so I'm not sure how viable watching Greta will be for her in the coming months.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2018, 01:15:15 PM »
Being childless, when I see folks at games with really little babies, I often think "phew, couldn't imagine needing to do that, it seems it would really take the fun out of it" - but so long as it doesn't directly affect me, I can't imagine getting bent out of shape about it.

I only get pissed when folks have crying babies at restaurants, games, etc., and don't remove them to soothe them when they are fussy. It seems that once a lot of people have kids, they get this very nervous, smiley, "we all went through it, it takes a village, HAHAHA" attitude about that, which i think is BS.  That's what makes the Packers woman so full of crap - its a perfectly reasonable policy to require the kid to have a ticket. There's no way that woman and her four month old's needs don't spill into the seats next to her - especially given the outdoor, bench style seating at Lambeau. Its completely predictable that having the seat next to her would really detract from the experience, and she shouldn't feel entitled to that.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2018, 01:20:37 PM »
I only get pissed when folks have crying babies at restaurants, games, etc., and don't remove them to soothe them when they are fussy. It seems that once a lot of people have kids, they get this very nervous, smiley, "we all went through it, it takes a village, HAHAHA" attitude about that, which i think is BS.  That's what makes the Packers woman so full of crap - its a perfectly reasonable policy to require the kid to have a ticket. There's no way that woman and her four month old's needs don't spill into the seats next to her - especially given the outdoor, bench style seating at Lambeau. Its completely predictable that having the seat next to her would really detract from the experience, and she shouldn't feel entitled to that.

We think about that a lot. If our daughter gets super fussy in a public place, we either take her aside to soothe her or leave altogether. But event by event it's hard to figure out where that line will be. In a restaurant or park? Sure, there was no admission cost. At a game where we spent money to be there? Trying to soothe and stay seems better than wasting the ticket money. On a plane? Not far you can go.

In a movie theater? Hell no. No infant should go to a movie. When the point is to be quiet and the volume will be loud, that's just being the a-hole in the room.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #3 on: September 16, 2018, 01:22:04 PM »
Doubt this will go far, but wanted to respond and felt the NFL Thread wasn't the place for it.

My wife and I having this debate right now regarding the Fiserv Forum. Greta will be 8 months old on opening night when UMBC comes to town. Typically, my wife and I go to games together. I'll occasionally bring someone else, she will even rarely take our tickets and bring a friend, but more often than not we go together.

With an infant, we're debating how best to manage it. We have a wrap that she usually falls asleep in quickly, and one advantage to the Forum is the open concept that would allow us to move up to the concourse tables if she gets fussy and disturbs those around us.

We may use babysitters at times, but to date have only used family, and that's even been rare because our only local in-law is an hour away (my parents are in Florida). And that local in-law just broke both her ankles, so I'm not sure how viable watching Greta will be for her in the coming months.
Start developing a go to list of babysitters. There are plenty of good quality high school and college kids. Ask around and find the best one in the neighborhood and have her come in a couple times before the season starts. Once you have one good one, they have friends and it goes from there.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #4 on: September 16, 2018, 01:34:50 PM »
Game=hearing protection

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2018, 01:35:13 PM »
We think about that a lot. If our daughter gets super fussy in a public place, we either take her aside to soothe her or leave altogether. But event by event it's hard to figure out where that line will be. In a restaurant or park? Sure, there was no admission cost. At a game where we spent money to be there? Trying to soothe and stay seems better than wasting the ticket money. On a plane? Not far you can go.

In a movie theater? Hell no. No infant should go to a movie. When the point is to be quiet and the volume will be loud, that's just being the a-hole in the room.

Oh totally situationally dependent, and I would hope most folks around you would be cool. And I think that's what makes the Packers game different than Fiserv.  An indoor bball game with individual seats makes it far easier and more reasonable to shuffle a baby in and out, have your diaper bag and the like, and keep her relatively content during the game, vs accomplishing the same goals with a single seat number on the benches at Lambeau. 

And breast feeding should be a settled issue by now. Perfectly fine anytime, anywhere.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2018, 02:40:34 PM »
Start developing a go to list of babysitters. There are plenty of good quality high school and college kids. Ask around and find the best one in the neighborhood and have her come in a couple times before the season starts. Once you have one good one, they have friends and it goes from there.

Ha!  Easier said then done when you are not originally from the area and you live in a neighborhood where there are no kids over the age of 8. 

At least there are online referral services now, which didn't exist when our kids were young.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #7 on: September 16, 2018, 02:47:43 PM »
Game=hearing protection

Definitely. We've been planning on that and I used your post as a reminder to actually order them. Will be here Wednesday.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #8 on: September 16, 2018, 02:50:39 PM »
Doubt this will go far, but wanted to respond and felt the NFL Thread wasn't the place for it.

My wife and I having this debate right now regarding the Fiserv Forum. Greta will be 8 months old on opening night when UMBC comes to town. Typically, my wife and I go to games together. I'll occasionally bring someone else, she will even rarely take our tickets and bring a friend, but more often than not we go together.

With an infant, we're debating how best to manage it. We have a wrap that she usually falls asleep in quickly, and one advantage to the Forum is the open concept that would allow us to move up to the concourse tables if she gets fussy and disturbs those around us.

We may use babysitters at times, but to date have only used family, and that's even been rare because our only local in-law is an hour away (my parents are in Florida). And that local in-law just broke both her ankles, so I'm not sure how viable watching Greta will be for her in the coming months.

re: babysitters.  We have had some good luck with hiring a daycare teacher for the night (check your daycares policies, I know not all places allow it.  We have also had some luck in swapping childcare with a friend, (you watch their kid one night, and they watch your another night...) that way you don't have to pay $$$ every time you want to go out.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2018, 03:59:14 PM »
Doubt this will go far, but wanted to respond and felt the NFL Thread wasn't the place for it.

My wife and I having this debate right now regarding the Fiserv Forum. Greta will be 8 months old on opening night when UMBC comes to town. Typically, my wife and I go to games together. I'll occasionally bring someone else, she will even rarely take our tickets and bring a friend, but more often than not we go together.

With an infant, we're debating how best to manage it. We have a wrap that she usually falls asleep in quickly, and one advantage to the Forum is the open concept that would allow us to move up to the concourse tables if she gets fussy and disturbs those around us.

We may use babysitters at times, but to date have only used family, and that's even been rare because our only local in-law is an hour away (my parents are in Florida). And that local in-law just broke both her ankles, so I'm not sure how viable watching Greta will be for her in the coming months.

My opinion doesn't mean much, but for the reasons you illustrate regarding the venue, taking an infant to a basketball game is very different than a football game at Lambeau.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #10 on: September 16, 2018, 04:43:09 PM »
I see it as the Packers taking a PR hit in an effort to prevent really bad parenting.

(And no, I don't think that is the reason the Packers did it)

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #11 on: September 16, 2018, 04:50:18 PM »
Brew, took our daughter to first MU game when she was 8 weeks old. Bring the Ergo for them to fall asleep in. Don’t expect to watch the entire game. Will have to let the 8th month old out and move at some point. I did notice that Fiserv has family restrooms. Take her to the game, at some point she will have to be out in public with other people, and the more times she does it the better it will be. And if people want to complain about how loud a child is at an MU game, that’s not cura personalis.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #12 on: September 16, 2018, 06:34:41 PM »
We started bringing our son to sporting events at 4 months in the Baby Bjorn or other carrier. Brought a wrap for feeding - 0 comments from people.

Dude was content as a log most of the event when awake and slept perfectly when he wanted to snooze. Lasted until he started walking at a year. We could still pull it off with him sleeping when he wanted, but he wanted to be on the go most of the time.We're at 15 mo and I can't imagine this is sustainable. Like you, we've predominantly relied on family and close friends.

Brewers games are great because they have the playground up in the 400s. Packers family night sucked because there is 0 effort by the NFL to make their stadiums accessible for families. We have aisle seats at the forum, so hopefully accessibility makes all but the busiest day games (Nova, Wisconsin). But we might decide we want to actually watch the games at some point...

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #13 on: September 16, 2018, 07:47:54 PM »
We brought our first kid to MU games all the time.   He'd normally fall asleep by half time, which was a problem in itself .. the adult can't move around much at that point, just provide a lap.  It worked.  And we never had those headfones for kids .. he'd fall asleep anyhow.

I think the worst part of the kid process was the transportation.  I'd often drop them off at the door, but then there's the hike back to the car without stroller. 

It worked out.   Big games we'd get a babysitter, mostly for us to enjoy more of the game.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #14 on: September 16, 2018, 08:03:13 PM »
In my opinion, kids (probably 6 and under) at NFL games is asking for trouble. It’s just a far far different environment than a baseball or basketball game. I’ve taken my son Bradley to a couple preseason Bear games to experience it, but a regular season football game with a young kid just isn’t fun for the adult and the kid is exposed to “a lot” to put it mildly.

My youngest (now 4) made it through a full Hawks game a couple years ago, three quarters of a Bulls game at 9 months, and he’s decided he loathes fireworks and refused to go to any more Sox games or KC Cougar games.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #15 on: September 16, 2018, 08:19:34 PM »
FF will have a kids area I hear.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #16 on: September 16, 2018, 08:55:41 PM »
Do what we did when our oldest was 8 months old: Just leave her alone for a few hours while you enjoy yourself.

Hey, man, they have to learn to be independent at some point!
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #17 on: September 16, 2018, 09:26:15 PM »
FF will have a kids area I hear.

Good, I was hoping to bring her to the Final Four this year too.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #18 on: September 16, 2018, 09:27:53 PM »
Do what we did when our oldest was 8 months old: Just leave her alone for a few hours while you enjoy yourself.

Hey, man, they have to learn to be independent at some point!

I wish I could find this article .. there was a story 5-10 years ago from Florida (of course) .. where a mom had to serve a month in jail and left her 4 year old at home.    The toddler managed. 

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #20 on: September 17, 2018, 06:01:50 AM »
I'm not sure about the rest of the NFL but the Packers are out of step with the rest of Wisconsin sports franchises. Bucks, Marquette, Madison football, Brewers all allow a child either 2 or under or under 2 to attend a game without a ticket. We've taken our son to each of those when he was less than two, though to be fair to the Packers, we didn't take him to a Badger game when he was still breast feeding.

We've been taking the kid to MU games since he was 1 month old, and frankly he loves the games, but we also recognize that we have to "sacrifice" when he wants to run around late in a game because he's tired of sitting. My favorite story of him was watching a 6PM non-con with just him and I as the wife works late some evenings at can't make all the games. He was sitting on my lap (a little over two at the time) watching the game and mid-way through the 1st half I wanted to get his attention to ask if he wanted something to eat and he turned his head briefly and said "shh, no talking dada, I'm watching the game". Proudest moment of my life. So bring the kid if you want, it's a different and harder experience but if it's what you want do it. I will agree though, that the bigger games, like Bucky this year, we'll stash him somewhere so we aren't distracted by the whole parenting thing.

Now, I will stand up for a breast feeding mother, because damn that is a hard job and a lot of times they don't want to feel excluded. Whether taking a infant to a Packer game is a bad idea or not (I wouldn't but that's my choice because Packer games are rarities IMO), as a society we should make it as easy as possible to get women back into "normalcy" as much as possible. I know my wife struggled some with the whole "I guess I just sit at home for the next year" aspect of breast feeding because you don't feel like you can go out in public or be away from the kid for longer than a couple of hours at a time. We really had to make a conscious effort to get out and do stuff and I would try to make it as easy on my wife as possible because it's really hard as it is. Classic example of where we just don't think about the things is infant changing tables in restrooms....a lot of men's rooms don't have changing tables in them, only the women's rooms do universally. The BC didn't have a men's room with a changing table that I ever found, so I usually ended up changing my son on the metal table in the middle of the restroom (maybe that's what it was for?). But the number of times we've taken our son some place public and I went to change him and had to come back and have my wife do it because there isn't a changing table is staggering.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #21 on: September 17, 2018, 08:14:12 AM »
Kohl's is the sponsor...

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bizjournals.com/milwaukee/news/2018/08/24/kohls-corp-sponsors-family-friendly-space-inside.amp.html

That will actually be very convenient for us as we are in 115, just around the corner from that area. I saw it when we did the tour but didn't realize what it was at the time.

eng, I definitely worked to help my wife get back into the world. I try to make sure she gets chances to go out with friends as much as possible, but sometimes you have to bring the kid with to make it work.

Changing tables in men's rooms are huge. The Forum does have at least one family restroom I saw, but it was upstairs. I'll have to look around to see if there's any near our section. However, if not, they do have changing tables in the men's rooms. I'm pretty sure that at the Marquette tour, I was the first person to use one of them because when I opened it up, the installation guide was still zip-tied to the table in a plastic pouch.

The place that has surprised me most without men's room changing tables is at the Summerfest grounds. I believe the only men's room changing table is in the back west corner of the bathrooms next to the EMS building. I've been in numerous other bathrooms there and they don't have them installed. Every time I wanted to change our daughter, I had to truck her across the park to that same bathroom. Considering how many family-friendly events they have (literally every weekend all summer long) you'd think they would be more accommodating to families.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #22 on: September 17, 2018, 08:47:24 AM »
Took my daughter to the Kalahari water park 3 years ago while my wife was at a conference. Had to change her in the men’s locker room, because there was no family bathroom. It was insane to me at the time, that a family place like that didn’t have a family bathroom.

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« Reply #23 on: September 17, 2018, 08:54:15 AM »
Thanks for starting this thread, brew. We'll be trying to best handle bringing a 4 month old to games this season, so it's good to read these anecdotes. I think we'll probably bring her to about 1/3 of the games, my wife will probably skip some cupcakes and stay home with her, and we'll get a sitter for the bigger/louder games.

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« Reply #24 on: September 17, 2018, 08:56:36 AM »
Eng, when was #nored's toughest season?  As he gets older and more into it, I know MU hoops is becoming quite fun for both of you.  Trust me, in about a dozen years it'll be the only common ground you have with him for awhile.   :o  How was he at one plus a few months or two plus a few months?

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« Reply #25 on: September 17, 2018, 09:11:57 AM »
Thanks for starting this thread, brew. We'll be trying to best handle bringing a 4 month old to games this season, so it's good to read these anecdotes. I think we'll probably bring her to about 1/3 of the games, my wife will probably skip some cupcakes and stay home with her, and we'll get a sitter for the bigger/louder games.

I've heard good things about the noise cancelling headphones and they can be had on Amazon for around $20 depending on the brand. We do also have one of those wraps so she can snuggle right up to one of our bodies and usually falls asleep pretty quick in there. Now that we have a full schedule, I'll probably be sending out a schedule to friends to figure out who wants to pick up games that my wife doesn't want to attend.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #26 on: September 17, 2018, 09:57:32 AM »
I've got a 1 month-old at home right now too, and I've been trying to convince my wife that we can take her to games and have it not be a problem.  She's convinced getting to and enjoying games will be too much of a hassle, so we didn't do a season ticket package.

Comments on here help me see that we won't be alone.  I'll have her read this...maybe there's hope for me yet!

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« Reply #27 on: September 17, 2018, 10:02:38 AM »
I've got a 1 month-old at home right now too, and I've been trying to convince my wife that we can take her to games and have it not be a problem.  She's convinced getting to and enjoying games will be too much of a hassle, so we didn't do a season ticket package.

Comments on here help me see that we won't be alone.  I'll have her read this...maybe there's hope for me yet!

SaveOD, we would take our daughter bowling with us when she was a few months old just to get out of the house.  She'd sleep in her car carrier.

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« Reply #28 on: September 17, 2018, 10:09:28 AM »
SaveOD, we would take our daughter bowling with us when she was a few months old just to get out of the house.  She'd sleep in her car carrier.

Yup, with a now 4 year old, the first year to 18 months is much easier to get out, travel, get out the door....Once they both develop legs to run around and the mental capacity to argue with you, it's get a lot harder  ;D

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« Reply #29 on: September 17, 2018, 10:22:48 AM »
I've got a 1 month-old at home right now too, and I've been trying to convince my wife that we can take her to games and have it not be a problem.  She's convinced getting to and enjoying games will be too much of a hassle, so we didn't do a season ticket package.

Comments on here help me see that we won't be alone.  I'll have her read this...maybe there's hope for me yet!

We started out at around 1 month with short excursions. Appetizers at El Fuego was the first one because we knew we could pretty much pay and walk at any time. As she got older (6 months now) we have taken her to trivia nights, museums, ethnic festivals (Polish, German, Festa, etc), and other excursions that last 2-5 hours. The older she's gotten, the better she's tolerated these kinds of events.

Here are things I would consider. First, your baby might be 1 month now, but that'll be 3 months by the time the season starts and 7 months by the time Georgetown comes in for Senior Day. Start off with short excursions where you plan to be out for 30-45 minutes and lengthen from there.

Second, you can do things to make sure your child stays fairly calm. Noise cancelling headphones, a sling wrap, and bottles (or a boob) work well. That said, you need to remember that to keep your child calm, you may need to get up and move around at times. That would be better at the Forum than it was at the BC because the open concept would allow you to continue watching the game while you move around.

Third, if you go the season ticket route, my guess is (this is my first go-around with child too) you will have to be willing to walk out of a game or three over the course of the season. If you have that day when they're teething, or just won't settle down, you might have to just bite the bullet. If it's a game you really want to see, maybe arrange for a sitter or to take a friend instead of the wife (or her to take a friend instead of you ;D ).
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« Reply #30 on: September 17, 2018, 11:06:20 AM »
Eng, when was #nored's toughest season?  As he gets older and more into it, I know MU hoops is becoming quite fun for both of you.  Trust me, in about a dozen years it'll be the only common ground you have with him for awhile.   :o  How was he at one plus a few months or two plus a few months?

For me personally, ages 2-3 were the worst. Hard to sit still for that long. Now that she’s 5 she actually understands what’s going and will watch the game and the video board. Of course now our son is 2 so...

Kind of a cool MU story. The ‘13 ND game was loud, so my wife ended up walking the halls a bunch during the game with our then 5 month old. She met another mom who was doing the same. 5 months later, we were at the same wedding, not knowing we had a mutual friend.

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« Reply #31 on: September 17, 2018, 11:36:46 AM »
Game=hearing protection

Yep, the sound is the issue.  My impression is that the FF is going to be really loud - and I'm not talking the crowds - I'm taking about the sound system.

So, have a plan to protect the baby's ears.  Other than that, I say bring the kid.  The more you do as a family the better.  The more you expose your child to the better - increase that IQ.

That being said, we avoided the Friday/Saturday night big games with our young kids due to crowd noise, a bit more rowdy, etc.  But for most of the games bring the kid with.  You will all be better for it.

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« Reply #32 on: September 17, 2018, 11:59:51 AM »
Eng, when was #nored's toughest season?  As he gets older and more into it, I know MU hoops is becoming quite fun for both of you.  Trust me, in about a dozen years it'll be the only common ground you have with him for awhile.   :o  How was he at one plus a few months or two plus a few months?
Year 1+ was better than year 2+ though neither was too bad. I worried about this season because it's basically trying to parent a terrorist now so I'm not sure how it's going to go. He's still very much into sports generally but he doesn't sit and watch sports on TV nearly as much as he would the previous two years so I have a sneaking feeling that he's not coming to a lot of games this season but we'll see.....plus he isn't free any more so we'll see.

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« Reply #33 on: September 17, 2018, 12:16:59 PM »
Took my daughter to the Kalahari water park 3 years ago while my wife was at a conference. Had to change her in the men’s locker room, because there was no family bathroom. It was insane to me at the time, that a family place like that didn’t have a family bathroom.

Family bathrooms are a new phenomenon, and are slowly being incorporated into building codes... depending on where you were in the Kalahari complex, some of those buildings are 20 years old.  I don't know of any places that were building family restrooms at that time.  Granted, you can retrofit if footprint allows, but not all commercial buildings have the luxury of underutilized space lying around.

Something that really pisses me off (well, not anymore... but it was a constant reminder during the great diaper years of 2009-2016) is a) when there is a changing table in the women's restroom but not the men's, especially at a place like a restaurant or a park or b) when there is a changing table in the men's room but it's not being cleaned by the previous users and/or janitorial staff.  Thank God for Generation X that our perspectives on life are the first not to suck.

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #34 on: September 17, 2018, 12:28:38 PM »
One thing I've learned, sometimes the changing table in the men's room is in the handicapped bathroom. Not always as accessible as you'd like, and I'm sure can create a bigger inconvenience, but I suppose better than nothing.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #35 on: September 17, 2018, 12:39:30 PM »
Year 1+ was better than year 2+ though neither was too bad. I worried about this season because it's basically trying to parent a terrorist now so I'm not sure how it's going to go. He's still very much into sports generally but he doesn't sit and watch sports on TV nearly as much as he would the previous two years so I have a sneaking feeling that he's not coming to a lot of games this season but we'll see.....plus he isn't free any more so we'll see.



Eng, kids are a wonderful and fulfilling blessing.  But I'm of the opinion that you can only run the gauntlet 'once' in a lifetime.  We're not close to grandkids yet but I very much look forward to 'pops' having all the fun (and spoiling them rotten) and handing them back to mom/dad when the heavy lifting starts again!

By the way, chick and I like playing with all your kids out in the concourse.  Just bring me an $11 beer.   ;D

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #36 on: September 17, 2018, 01:17:30 PM »
I've got a 1 month-old at home right now too, and I've been trying to convince my wife that we can take her to games and have it not be a problem.  She's convinced getting to and enjoying games will be too much of a hassle, so we didn't do a season ticket package.

We started taking our son to games when he was 4 months old.   Obligatory Jumbotron shot: 


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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #37 on: September 17, 2018, 02:40:43 PM »
Will you need a ticket to bring your newborn to a MU game at the Fi?

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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #38 on: September 17, 2018, 04:11:03 PM »
Will you need a ticket to bring your newborn to a MU game at the Fi?

No, any child under 2 gets in free, same with the Brewers.
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Re: Breast Feeding (From NFL Thread)
« Reply #39 on: September 17, 2018, 04:35:19 PM »
No, any child under 2 gets in free, same with the Brewers.

Under 2?  As long as you can handle a kid sitting in your lap the whole game they can be free.  I have found that once they get to about 4 (depending on weight) sitting in your lap the whole game is not that enjoyable.

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« Reply #40 on: September 17, 2018, 06:04:24 PM »
My four year old son has been two years old for a long time now...especially at Disney World.

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« Reply #41 on: September 17, 2018, 08:27:32 PM »
Under 2?  As long as you can handle a kid sitting in your lap the whole game they can be free.  I have found that once they get to about 4 (depending on weight) sitting in your lap the whole game is not that enjoyable.

It's what they officially publish....I carry my son in and no one questions anything. Dont think I'll be able to pull it off this season, hes 98th percentile in height and doesn't stop talking
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« Reply #42 on: September 18, 2018, 07:29:31 AM »
It's what they officially publish....I carry my son in and no one questions anything. Dont think I'll be able to pull it off this season, hes 98th percentile in height and doesn't stop talking

The best part about our kids being small for their age was being able to use family preboard on airplanes way past when we were supposed to.
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« Reply #43 on: September 18, 2018, 09:34:26 AM »
I've got a 1 month-old at home right now too, and I've been trying to convince my wife that we can take her to games and have it not be a problem.  She's convinced getting to and enjoying games will be too much of a hassle, so we didn't do a season ticket package.

Comments on here help me see that we won't be alone.  I'll have her read this...maybe there's hope for me yet!

Progress made.  Took baby SaveOD to the Brewer game last night.  She made it the whole game, and only got fussy once.  My wife used the nursing pod to feed her with no problems. 

She's also got impeccable sports luck, getting to see a cycle in her first game.  I might HAVE to bring her to every MU game!

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« Reply #44 on: September 27, 2018, 05:53:09 AM »
we would take our daughter bowling with us when she was a few months old

Was an evening of bowling before or after Sheepshead then a fish fry?
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« Reply #45 on: September 27, 2018, 07:11:10 AM »
Was an evening of bowling before or after Sheepshead then a fish fry?

This was in Chicago. No sheepshead, no decent fish fry.
Have some patience, FFS.

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« Reply #46 on: September 27, 2018, 03:47:32 PM »
This was in Chicago. No sheepshead, no decent fish fry.

Same $hitty weather as Milwaukee but without a proper fish fry? Why the hell did you guys pick Chicago???
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« Reply #47 on: September 28, 2018, 10:21:39 AM »
This was in Chicago. No sheepshead, no decent fish fry.

Irish center and wills northwoods for a decent Friday fish fry.
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« Reply #48 on: September 28, 2018, 10:25:05 AM »
Irish center and wills northwoods for a decent Friday fish fry.

Oh. I ended up finding one (Village Tavern), but not at the time.

And I am rarely within the city limits except for work.
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« Reply #49 on: September 30, 2018, 07:18:22 PM »
Under 2?  As long as you can handle a kid sitting in your lap the whole game they can be free.  I have found that once they get to about 4 (depending on weight) sitting in your lap the whole game is not that enjoyable.

This is why we have an au pair.

With the BabyDavid's unexpected emergence we brought in an au pair from Denmark about a month before his birth. She eliminates all of the hassles normally encountered when both parents have demanding careers. We can work late or travel with absolute confidence in theBabyDavid's care and comfort.

Another very important benefit is that theBabyDavid is spared the nightmare of the child care petri dish where kids have a never ending runny nose, cough, and fever.

Finally, our au pair speaks fluent French which she uses constantly with theBabyDavid. And unlike the day care center she focuses her attention exclusively on him.


 
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« Reply #50 on: September 30, 2018, 07:33:32 PM »
This is why we have an au pair.

With the BabyDavid's unexpected emergence we brought in an au pair from Denmark about a month before his birth. She eliminates all of the hassles normally encountered when both parents have demanding careers. We can work late or travel with absolute confidence in theBabyDavid's care and comfort.

Another very important benefit is that theBabyDavid is spared the nightmare of the child care petri dish where kids have a never ending runny nose, cough, and fever.

Finally, our au pair speaks fluent French which she uses constantly with theBabyDavid. And unlike the day care center she focuses her attention exclusively on him.


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« Reply #51 on: October 01, 2018, 10:07:53 AM »
This is why we have an au pair.

With the BabyDavid's unexpected emergence we brought in an au pair from Denmark about a month before his birth. She eliminates all of the hassles normally encountered when both parents have demanding careers. We can work late or travel with absolute confidence in theBabyDavid's care and comfort.

Another very important benefit is that theBabyDavid is spared the nightmare of the child care petri dish where kids have a never ending runny nose, cough, and fever.

Finally, our au pair speaks fluent French which she uses constantly with theBabyDavid. And unlike the day care center she focuses her attention exclusively on him.

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« Reply #52 on: October 01, 2018, 11:45:10 PM »

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Good ol' Sultan. It was bait and you took it.

You are genuinely predictable.

While you were spending hours engaged in Internet bullying our team was making a difference in clean energy.

You call it "hiding from you" but I call it answering Marquette's call to make a difference in the world. Whether it's solar in France, India, and Vietnam (along with the region's very first energy coop,) Waste 2 Energy in three countries, installing stored energy systems in Alaska Native and First Nations Villages, the first meaningful engineered solution for end-of-life cycle wind turbine blades, or doing the application engineering of hydrogen-enriched fuels for lean burn engines our crew, in partnership with GE, has been making a real difference in just the last six months.

You are a silly little man driven to demean others in some imaginary self-pro claimed tough guy role. But what is genuinely humorous is that you have no clue as to how insignificant you really are.

And, oh, each of the guys on our team likely earned more personal wealth than you will in six lifetimes. Think about that.

Keep spending all of your time arguing with people on Scoop while others deliver genuine engineering solutions for vexing problems that is making power cleaner, safer, more affordable with improved access for disadvantaged communities.

We do have an au pair. I think there are many people who have lives you cannot possibly imagine.   
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« Reply #53 on: October 02, 2018, 12:03:16 AM »
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« Reply #54 on: October 02, 2018, 05:58:18 AM »
I honestly had no idea that my life was so worthless in deciding to spend my time/live in a Midwest town, doing a job I enjoy, making a modest salary. Fair enough.

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« Reply #55 on: October 02, 2018, 07:11:18 AM »
Good ol' Sultan. It was bait and you took it.

You are genuinely predictable.

While you were spending hours engaged in Internet bullying our team was making a difference in clean energy.

You call it "hiding from you" but I call it answering Marquette's call to make a difference in the world. Whether it's solar in France, India, and Vietnam (along with the region's very first energy coop,) Waste 2 Energy in three countries, installing stored energy systems in Alaska Native and First Nations Villages, the first meaningful engineered solution for end-of-life cycle wind turbine blades, or doing the application engineering of hydrogen-enriched fuels for lean burn engines our crew, in partnership with GE, has been making a real difference in just the last six months.

You are a silly little man driven to demean others in some imaginary self-pro claimed tough guy role. But what is genuinely humorous is that you have no clue as to how insignificant you really are.

And, oh, each of the guys on our team likely earned more personal wealth than you will in six lifetimes. Think about that.

Keep spending all of your time arguing with people on Scoop while others deliver genuine engineering solutions for vexing problems that is making power cleaner, safer, more affordable with improved access for disadvantaged communities.

We do have an au pair. I think there are many people who have lives you cannot possibly imagine.
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« Reply #56 on: October 02, 2018, 08:06:31 AM »
Good ol' Sultan. It was bait and you took it.

You are genuinely predictable.

While you were spending hours engaged in Internet bullying our team was making a difference in clean energy.

You call it "hiding from you" but I call it answering Marquette's call to make a difference in the world. Whether it's solar in France, India, and Vietnam (along with the region's very first energy coop,) Waste 2 Energy in three countries, installing stored energy systems in Alaska Native and First Nations Villages, the first meaningful engineered solution for end-of-life cycle wind turbine blades, or doing the application engineering of hydrogen-enriched fuels for lean burn engines our crew, in partnership with GE, has been making a real difference in just the last six months.

You are a silly little man driven to demean others in some imaginary self-pro claimed tough guy role. But what is genuinely humorous is that you have no clue as to how insignificant you really are.

And, oh, each of the guys on our team likely earned more personal wealth than you will in six lifetimes. Think about that.

Keep spending all of your time arguing with people on Scoop while others deliver genuine engineering solutions for vexing problems that is making power cleaner, safer, more affordable with improved access for disadvantaged communities.

We do have an au pair. I think there are many people who have lives you cannot possibly imagine.

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« Reply #57 on: October 02, 2018, 08:34:15 AM »
My life feels so inadequate now

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« Reply #58 on: October 02, 2018, 11:56:01 AM »
Note to self: don't ever let a family member attend Georgetown Prep.
Have some patience, FFS.

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« Reply #59 on: October 02, 2018, 12:24:29 PM »
Note to self: don't ever let a family member attend Georgetown Prep.

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« Reply #60 on: October 02, 2018, 04:12:30 PM »
Good ol' Sultan. It was bait and you took it.

You are genuinely predictable.

While you were spending hours engaged in Internet bullying our team was making a difference in clean energy.

You call it "hiding from you" but I call it answering Marquette's call to make a difference in the world. Whether it's solar in France, India, and Vietnam (along with the region's very first energy coop,) Waste 2 Energy in three countries, installing stored energy systems in Alaska Native and First Nations Villages, the first meaningful engineered solution for end-of-life cycle wind turbine blades, or doing the application engineering of hydrogen-enriched fuels for lean burn engines our crew, in partnership with GE, has been making a real difference in just the last six months.

You are a silly little man driven to demean others in some imaginary self-pro claimed tough guy role. But what is genuinely humorous is that you have no clue as to how insignificant you really are.

And, oh, each of the guys on our team likely earned more personal wealth than you will in six lifetimes. Think about that.

Keep spending all of your time arguing with people on Scoop while others deliver genuine engineering solutions for vexing problems that is making power cleaner, safer, more affordable with improved access for disadvantaged communities.

We do have an au pair. I think there are many people who have lives you cannot possibly imagine.

This might be the strangest I am better than you brag I have seen in a while....

Also, why do you need an au pair to do what you described before?  There are literally millions of families who have both mom and dad working in very demanding jobs, millions of families that like to travel (and most actually like bringing their kids with them instead of leaving them at home...), and all the other junk you spouted about "petri dish" environments and teaching foreign languages are personal preferences.  I personally think interaction with other kids at younger ages is better for their social development, and that if you want to teach your kid a foreign language you should learn it and teach them.  My kids will learn Spanish from me and my wife is working on Croatian with them (and me).

Anyways, to each their own I guess.

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« Reply #61 on: October 02, 2018, 04:46:03 PM »


If only someone would invent this device so they could pat themselves on the back. Also the iPhone added that measuring app to accomplish the other thing.
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« Reply #62 on: October 02, 2018, 05:01:13 PM »
This might be the strangest I am better than you brag I have seen in a while....

Also, why do you need an au pair to do what you described before?  There are literally millions of families who have both mom and dad working in very demanding jobs, millions of families that like to travel (and most actually like bringing their kids with them instead of leaving them at home...), and all the other junk you spouted about "petri dish" environments and teaching foreign languages are personal preferences.  I personally think interaction with other kids at younger ages is better for their social development, and that if you want to teach your kid a foreign language you should learn it and teach them.  My kids will learn Spanish from me and my wife is working on Croatian with them (and me).

Anyways, to each their own I guess.

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« Reply #63 on: October 02, 2018, 07:01:25 PM »
Yep.   Understanding the source and context makes it all make sense. 
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« Reply #64 on: October 02, 2018, 07:38:16 PM »
You can bang the au pair. 

Can't bang the nanny.

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« Reply #65 on: October 02, 2018, 09:20:34 PM »
You can bang the au pair. 

Can't bang the nanny.

That would be a negative, ghost rider. 
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« Reply #66 on: October 31, 2018, 01:31:55 PM »
Being childless, when I see folks at games with really little babies, I often think "phew, couldn't imagine needing to do that, it seems it would really take the fun out of it" - but so long as it doesn't directly affect me, I can't imagine getting bent out of shape about it.

I only get pissed when folks have crying babies at restaurants, games, etc., and don't remove them to soothe them when they are fussy. It seems that once a lot of people have kids, they get this very nervous, smiley, "we all went through it, it takes a village, HAHAHA" attitude about that, which i think is BS.  That's what makes the Packers woman so full of crap - its a perfectly reasonable policy to require the kid to have a ticket. There's no way that woman and her four month old's needs don't spill into the seats next to her - especially given the outdoor, bench style seating at Lambeau. Its completely predictable that having the seat next to her would really detract from the experience, and she shouldn't feel entitled to that.

I do not think someone should get punished for having his/her kid fusses at a restaurant.. I mean, you get what  you pay for...Your admission fee is your bill.. Managements would surely loose out if such policies were implemented. As for the games, i agree 100%.... No one wants to watch a game next to a kid that keep pulling on  your sweater and stepping over you.