I see some of Hayward's various points in this thread. If any of the things that happened to him were isolated, I would definitely give him the benefit of the doubt. Unfortunately, here is what I know following the history of him at this point:
- A poster here (I apologize I don't recall the poster) stated after he signed with Marquette that he was a bad seed and would never play a game for Marquette. He was nearly correct in his statement
- Mbakwe got injured and played at the end of his frosh season
- Crean leaves and someone hears Mbakwe is definitely transferring. Mbakwe states "he has no idea where that came from"
- Mbakwe, instead of transferring after Buzz is named coach or even transferring during the summer giving the coaches a chance to recruit someone or plan for his departure, leaves the team high and dry at the last moment
- Mbakwe goes to Florida and is arrested for a felony assualt on a woman
- Mbakwe signs with Tubby and Minnesota
- Charges of Mbakwe are not quickly dropped and remain for quite some time
- Mbakwe toils while charges are pending for a long time
- Finally cleared to play by Tubby and now we find out yet another woman filed a restraining order against him and he, albeit in a light way, defied the order and contacted said woman
A lot of history to make a general determination against someone's character. Not looking good at this point.
