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« Last post by HouWarrior on Today at 05:54:36 AM »
There is an underlying issue that would move this ongoing risk miles in the right direction.
Is your faith or the doctrines of the church fundamentally altered if celibacy were abolished?
To me it wouldn't affect much of anything but the underlying institutional problem. Consider that:
1) a priest is required to take a vow of celibacy but going in he gets little training on his sexuality or how to cope with the human urges which will still exist, in the face of this contrary to nature vow.
Then:
2) a priest may keep the vow without incident (but maybe it will have some side effects) congrats;
3) a priest will closet his vow breaking with straight sex, sometimes with vulnerable women;
4) a priest will closet his vow breaking by either having or beginning homosexual sex with other men, sometimes priests;
5) a priest will closet his vow breaking by pursuit and actions on feelings of pedophilia; or
6) like any discussion of sexual preference, there is a spectrum of the above categories which may arise over time
It would seem all church leaders were reared up and are rowing the same familiar boat of celibacy which leads them to instinctively protect the celibacy institution by internally recognizing that the above options have and will occur but that the myth of perfect celibacy, obedience to God and to holy vows made require the institution not only accommodate but make it policy to secrete vow breaking and leave victims behind in the world of such enforced silence. Regardless of the priest's chosen vow breaking category, or even vow compliance none have an incentive to break with the others, the shelter/meal ticket system, their leaders or the codes of silence.
A simple question arises...What if celibacy was abolished? What if sexual activity became an open book? Why not, in one action, eliminate the personal and institutional denial and secretion of vow breaking.
Sure, hate the sin but love the sinner. Why did we ever expect even on a vow taking that priests could achieve the perfect. I think less of someone hiding from the truth of fallibility and am happy to assist the honest.
My faith my love my devotion has never been improved one wit by celibacy. Actually, it seems arcane and quite peripheral to the core of Christianity...kind of like the circus show of the Vatican's incense pot swing.
Please avoid noting errors or picking at the periphery ....and answer:
Q: Why not just abolish celibacy?